One of my pet peeves is when you ask me out and expecting the day to be fun, without putting in any thought about what how your time spent with me will be like. Leaving me with all the work. You are not helping me be excited for the day.

Sure it's fine that two people meet up just for the sake of meeting. That is if those two people are madly and blindly in love. Or there has been a set motive for a conversation that these two have planned beforehand.

But we are neither and not even close.

It leaves me with the bitter aftertaste of a time tt was well spent only because of a common activity that was organised, planned, and executed by an external body.

It should be encouraged for people to want to do lawful and healthy activities. It should be encouraged for people to voice out tt they want to see places. If you keep saying 'i prefer anything' or 'I don't mind anything' it makes for a boring person. And it makes me feel guilty for wanting. And I stopped being the typical person who kept saying "anything you want" or " anywhere you go".

Or maybe I am just salivating for a good afternoon nap.